Tuesday, November 22, 2011

“Limitless” and Our Cultural Values

I recently watched the film “Limitless” and I can’t stop thinking about it (and not because it was brilliant). In our culture there is this (at times oppressive) ideology that values an endless, personal sacrifice to achievement, improvement, productivity, power, wealth, fame, and this bizarre desire to experience everything. Why? Because you can! At least that’s what we were always told, and we’re probably a little bit bored. We will ignore the fact for this post that despite this overall cultural ideology, the American model of education is one that produces pliable, obedient employees. Moving on.

The protagonist in “Limitless” is a struggling, dishevelled writer who can’t focus, that is until he swallows a wonder drug which gives him extraordinary memory and analytical power (i.e. allows him to access his brain’s full potential.) The premise of the film is based on the prevalent myth that humans only use 20 percent of their brains. Neither a person, nor a drug, can turn on “unused” neural circuits (this is not the same thing as neuroplasticity).

But even if it were possible, the film is very revealing of our cultural values in terms of what the film’s protagonist chose to do with his new powers. Put it this way, he didn’t run off to the mountains to seek enlightenment. He didn’t turn into Albert Einstein either. What he turned in to was a millionaire playboy. His new genius didn’t isolate him from society, noooooo, he dressed better. The protagonist achieved a certain amount of fame and many material riches and luxurious experiences. So it left me wondering, is that really what we would do if we reached our “full potential,” go after cheap thrills and play intense corporate games? He did learn some interesting skills: mastered many languages, self-defence, music, but he didn’t do anything beneficial with those new skills.

There is a certain tension inherent in American values. Everyone tells their kids they can grow up to be President one day, but everyone is supposed to be equal. It’s one thing to want to be the President, but you better damn well be humble about it. And of course, as soon as you believe with confidence just how great and special you are, just as you have been brought up to believe, people are ready to tear you down. Perhaps that’ because it is also a society of moralists—people who know exactly how you need to change, but are in no need of transformation themselves. It is an ego boost to make others feel inferior, but can you blame them if they were always told they were special, “God has special plans for you,” even though they consistently wrote the worst poems in English class. There’s nothing wrong with parents wanting their kids to have better lives, but I wonder why “better” is so intimately connected with more material wealth. You never left your hometown so now you want your kids to travel to whole world! If you’re rich, you’re somebody; otherwise, you’re nobody. And you’re never happy or content with what you have or who you are because your whole life you heard that you could be and have more, better, greater. So when you find yourself sitting next to a person at a dinner party who has just finished regaling the guests with a story of their latest and greatest adventure and their professional exploits (they’re definitely not blue-collar) you feel invisible, especially when they ask you what you do *gulp*. “Limitless” exploits our insecurities to entertain us!

I’m quite content with my “boring” life, and yet, watching that film, part of me was envious, part of me wondered, “what if?”  Maybe the quest for self-improvement is not a cultural value, but rather something innate? I don’t know. But there are probably people who, despite witnessing the breakdown of the physical body on the screen, would willing swap a decade or two of life in trade for reaching their “full human potential.” Maybe that’s because we’re a culture that values youth over wisdom--we make icons out of those who have burned the brightest and died young.

Or you could just look at this film as another movie about drug addiction, in which case, my point has little meaning.

At least that is what I observe through my limited perception. Now if I took one of those little, clear pills . . .

(I admit that this is a rather pessimistic view, and I don’t really believe [and don’t want to] that most people would take such powers and waste them on the stock market and driving fast cars. I will admit that I was entertained. Now, if you’ll excuse me, I need to go work on my “six pack.”)

6 comments:

  1. I recently watched the trailer to this movie and found it looked both annoying and intriguing at the same time. I will eventually watch it, when it turns up on the $1.00 rentals at the video store in a couple of years. Since my earning abilities aren't "limitless" and I have other things I'd rather spend my money on, I'm always at least 2 years behind when it comes to watching movies.

    I often think about much of what you've mentioned above. I don't see a whole lot of value in hammering into children's brains that they are "special" and capable of amazing things. I see it as parents offloading their narcissism and unlived lives onto their kids. It ends up being a pretty heavy burden, and has nothing to do with offering their uniqueness and creativity, or even their intelligence, to the world but everything to do with encouraging them to play the game and excel at conforming to the cultural ideals you mention above.

    Why not focus on kinder, more humble goals like cultivating kindness and respect, finding ways to offer ones gifts to the world, and seeking out joy, happiness, and beauty . . . even if none of that pays well or sounds impressive during a dinner party boasting session?

    Focusing on the specialness of the individual also has the effect of breeding alienation and loneliness. We get so hung up on individuality that we forget that, first of all, we really aren't any better or more deserving than anyone else; second of all, we aren't all that different either. We experience being here on this earth in very similar ways, with similar needs and motivations.

    Your post raises some interesting questions. Why are some (maybe most) of us afraid of being bored or boring, afraid of NOT being celebrated and adored? Do we really have to live in a world where our egos run rampant and our souls starve? Is it possible to opt out of that way of being and still be a part of society? How far is it possible to step back and create something different?

    Personally, I cast my vote for the quest for self-improvement being a cultural value and not innate. I think this would be a very foreign concept in many cultures. We live in a culture where not being happy with ourselves is the basis of our economy and culture always is usually shaped by the underlying economy, not the other way round. This inability to accept ourselves as we are, which is the motive behind all this self-improvement business, bleeds into a lack of acceptance of others (thus must get divorced, move on, look for someone better, not feel beholden to family, etc.).

    There is actually quite a good movie, whose title I will endeavor to recall, that deals with the emptiness and disappointment of two brothers who grew up being told they were special and could do anything, be anything, and how lost they ended up, about how they never felt good enough . . . damn, wish could remember the name.

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  2. Laurel: I think you've won the award for longest response on my blog to date! hehe.

    I agree that most movies aren't worth the cost, but I am a movie lover. I even wanted to work in the film business when I was still in high school (there's a decent industry in NS) but then someone in the biz told me you never get to sleep, so I decided it wasn't for me! And so glad I changed my mind because it is a hard business to be in.

    In a way, i think the method of parenting where you just give praise and say "you're special" is a cop out. Simply out, it's a symptom of lazy parenting--but if both parents are working full-time jobs and are never home then of course they'll lavish their kids with this kind of attention--they feel guilty. I wasn't brought up this way--could have used a little bit of it maybe:) Instead, I grew up thinking I couldn't do anything right. Of course there are still lots of kids with horrible self-esteem.

    The values you mention are ones I value too, but those kinds of values can only be instilled by spedning genuine "quality time" with your kids, and people don't seem to the have time (I guess it's an issue of priority.

    Like you said specialness has an "effect of breeding alienation and loneliness," I would say that creates a cycle where the cure is to be adorned etc., because that is what society tells us is the cure. I am not saying this properly . . . too early in the morning and I haven't ate breakfast yet:)

    I also think the fear of being boring etc is a foreign concept in many cultures--especially those where the people are struggling to merely survive. I often think of this if my mind gets stuck in thinking how my life could be better, and I'm not saying that's bad, but I remind myself that the fact that such and such is my biggest concern means that I'm damn lucky and so I'm very grateful that I have room for such concerns. I don't feel like my life is "wasted" if nothing comes of those desires. I'm alive and relatively healthy and I get to marvel at the wonders of nature every day--that's good enough for me. For others, it might be something else.

    The movie about the two brothers says vaguely familiar . . . if you remember it, come back and tell me so I can look it up.

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  3. Oh, my grammar is bad! I need to start proofing my comments before hitting "submit"!

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  4. Yes, Grace, I'm the Fastest Typist in the West, so can easily get carried away with verbose comments. Wish I was as snappy a proof-reader as I am a typist though.

    I agree that there are many kids with terrible self-esteem despite all the "you're wonderful and full of potential my angel" BS. I think this is because such talk (and it is really just empty talk with no substance behind it) breeds narcissism, which is a sad, needy state that bears no resemblance to self-confidence and self-acceptance; the good stuff that pushes you forward and pulls you through life's challenges and hardships with grace and integrity. Very different from, "I'm here! Love me! Pick me! I'm special!"

    And I agree, it's all about time and priorities, which brings us back full circle: If we feel money, status and achievement are most important we won't have time. Time is the most precious gift anyone can give another person.

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  5. "agree that there are many kids with terrible self-esteem despite all the “you’re wonderful and full of potential my angel” BS. I think this is because such talk (and it is really just empty talk with no substance behind it)"

    I agree with that. The lack of substance leaves a big head empty and then you feel like you can't live up to such high expectations which in turn fuels low self-esteem.

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  6. You are right,we will ignore most of the power because simply we can. We are stuck in the comfort zone many of us and it's hard to leave it.

    My advice is to leave the comfort zone by little each day therefore you can do new things everyday.

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